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How to Plan a Birthday Party (without getting overwhelmed)

May 31, 2016 by Leslie

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Get back to loving your kids parties again! Here you’ll learn how to plan a birthday party you love without getting overwhelmed by the details.

party supplies on a table with the text plan a birthday party no overwhelm necessary

Most parents I know plan a birthday party for their kids one of two ways:

  1. They start months in advance, with lots of homemade decorations and projects, or
  2. They don’t do anything until the last minute.

What if I told you both of these strategies is wrong?

If you’re one of these parents, you’re not alone. Over-the-top parties are my thing. Seriously, I love to see awesome events pulled together.

I spent six months planning my oldest’s first birthday party (these were the days before Pinterest, too!). And her fifth birthday took more than a week to set up. It’s an incredible feeling to see your hard work turn into a reality.

under the sea birthday party setup with sea creature balloons and octonauts signs

Then again, I’ve done last-minute parties, too.

There was the time I was eight months pregnant when my oldest turned 6. So I had zero energy to spare for a lot of extra projects. Plus, the venue we were at only allowed two hours from the start of set-up to the time we had to be out the door.

It was still cute, but also incredibly exhausting.

The good news is that you don’t have to operate at these extremes to plan an amazing birthday party for your kids. There is a middle ground.

Plan a party the smart way so you’re not racing to finish decorating as guests arrive on your front step.

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How to Plan a Birthday Party without Getting Overwhelmed

1. set limits

Don’t just budget your money, budget your time as well.

Figure out how much time you’re willing to spend on preparing for the party and let that guide you in deciding how many projects you will cook, craft, and create for your kid’s party.

This is the most important thing you can do. I really can’t stress it enough.

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2. Brainstorm ideas before going online

I know, I know, this sounds like sacrilege. I should want you to come to my site first for all your party planning needs, right?

Well, yes, I want you to come get inspired…but more than that I want you to have a party you love.

So just imagine how unique your kids’ party will be if you come up with even one or two ideas on your own. You just might be surprised to find out how many ideas you can come up with!

3. Set a Strict Time Limit when Browsing the Internet.

If you’re not satisfied with your brainstorming session and still feel the need to consult the internet for party ideas, set boundaries for yourself.

Set a timer for 30 or 45 minutes and scroll away. You can create a Pinterest board, but don’t go hog wild.

In that 30 minutes, pin anything that catches your eyes while you’re scrolling quickly. BUT, don’t click through to the website just yet, you might get distracted by something else and get off track.

4. Pare Back

Give yourself a day or two after your online searching session, and go back to your Pinterest board. DO NOT…I repeat…DO NOT perform another search for ideas!

This is the time you go through and actually click on each and every one of the pins you saved to double check:

  1. Does the picture lead to a page that tells you how to make what you liked?
  2. Are the instructions clear and easy to follow?
  3. Is the project easy enough to finish in a manageable timeframe?

If the answer to any of the questions above is no, move on to the next one on your list.

Then, take a look at your list of saved projects and compare them to the amount of time you decided you want to spend working on this party. If any one project is too time consuming, remove it.

Your goal is to limit yourself to 10 or 15 of your favorite projects at this point.

5. Prioritize

This is possibly the hardest part of all. You must choose only one or two projects you like the MOST. Look for the projects that you know you can do that also pack the biggest punch. Then focus on completing them first.

For the rest, you’ll have to estimate how long each will take to make, and if it’s really within the time budget you set for yourself above.

6. Make use of what works for you.

Once you’ve picked your favorite projects, fill in the rest of the 70-80% of your plan with tried-and-true recipes and projects.

If you’ve made something before, you’ll know how much time, effort, and cost will be needed to get it done. Chris, from Celebrations at Home shared how she keeps track of these with her party journal. It’s a great way to keep track of not just what works and what doesn’t, but also to keep track of special memories.

7. Use a Written Plan to Keep Track of Your Projects

So many people make the mistake of sitting down with a party planning sheet and do nothing but figure out the food and the guest list.

But that’s, all backward!

Taking the time to do all these other steps first will make writing down your party plan so much easier. You’ll have a clear idea of exactly what you want to do and how it will all come together.

And that, my friend, is where the real time and sanity savings happens. 

I’ve even got a worksheet to help make it easier for you. It’s specifically designed to keep track of your time as well as your budget and your guest list.

8. Be flexible, if it means simplifying your plan.

When you’re out shopping, take a look at what stores have that might be a good replacement for something you had planned.

For example, before my middle child’s Frozen Themed birthday party, I happened upon blue cheeseballs that worked perfectly with the theme. They weren’t a part of the original plan, but I still snatched up a couple bags and merrily replaced a homemade snack option with what I purchased.

9. Have a backup plan.

All my kids were born in the summer, which means I try to plan their parties outside.

But sometimes they get rained out, and that’s just fine.

It’s important to have a plan in mind for how to set up if your party has to be moved indoors. Outdoor activities are easily replaced with indoor party games, board games, or even free play with your kids’ toys.

10. Don’t sweat the small stuff.

The most important thing is that you and your guests have a wonderful time. Kids don’t really care about much more than having fun with their friends and eating cake.

Make your party awesome because you find it fun. Once it’s too stressful, it’s not worth it.

Guests won’t always remember what the decorations looked like or what food was served, but they will remember if you’re too stressed to spend time with them.

Now it’s Your Turn…

Don’t fall into the trap of planning too much too early. And don’t leave everything to the last minute either!

Grab your party planning sheet here, then follow these 10 steps to plan a birthday party without being overwhelmed. You just might host the best party your kids ever had!

What is your party planning style?
Do you have any extra tips to help plan a birthday party?

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About Leslie

Leslie is the passionate party planner in her family. After being diagnosed with breast cancer in 2018, she was determined to find a way to continue making amazing parties for her kids that don't leave you exhausted. To do that Leslie combines the experience she learned working for a professional event planner with the reality of a busy family life to create party inspiration that the average mom can reproduce and be proud of.

Comments

  1. Tamara says

    May 31, 2016 at 2:07 pm

    We have such a similar thing here. So many spring/summer birthdays. Tons! And we do get overwhelmed in the details. I’m printing this out, after pinning it, of course.

    • Leslie says

      June 1, 2016 at 1:25 pm

      Thanks so much Tamara. I hope this system works for you!

  2. Morgan says

    May 31, 2016 at 8:14 pm

    Agree with all of the above! Great suggestions. I love ‘have a backup plan’ because we end up needing to rely on that a lot for the small and big things come day of party :).

    • Leslie says

      June 1, 2016 at 1:26 pm

      Oh yes, a backup plan is a necessity. It doesn’t have to be complicated, either.

  3. Nina says

    June 1, 2016 at 9:32 am

    You guys have the perfect season to throw those 10 parties! Our birthdays are scattered throughout the year, and sadly no summer ones 🙁 You do a great job of throwing parties, Leslie! Can’t wait to see what you do this summer.

    • Leslie says

      June 1, 2016 at 1:28 pm

      We have family members with winter birthdays too, and that’s a totally different ballgame!

  4. Janine Huldie says

    June 1, 2016 at 10:46 am

    It was threatening to storm here all day long on Memorial Day, too. So, backup plans for times like this are totally a good thing to make and just couldn’t agree with that and all of your tips above, too!! 🙂

    • Leslie says

      June 1, 2016 at 1:38 pm

      It sprinkled on us a bit, but not enough to go inside. Let’s hope the weather isn’t any worse than that for the kids’ parties this summer!

  5. Jen says

    June 3, 2016 at 9:51 am

    Amen on the backup plan! Having one has saved me many a time. Our birthday parties are all year long. We do have 2 in a row in the summer, but that is it! Luckily, my kids are easy to please and that makes it easy!

    • Leslie says

      June 5, 2016 at 1:31 pm

      Having two in a row can be just as stressful, because everything happens at once! T and E’s birthdays are less than a week apart & it will be interesting to see how we manage it all. At least they’re not on the same exact day like my Husband and his brother!

  6. Dana says

    June 6, 2016 at 11:21 am

    We just had a big backyard party for Gwen’s graduation, so the only thing I would add is watch how much food you make or order! Turns out Wegman’s estimate of how much their deli platters will serve is much too low!

    My kids have August birthdays less than three weeks apart, but I actually found it easier to plan two so close together.

  7. Nellie says

    June 8, 2016 at 6:45 pm

    You are such a gifted natural at this Leslie, I’ve said a million times I’d pay for your services!! you should consider opening up a biz. You are SOO good!

  8. Donna Coogan says

    June 7, 2016 at 1:58 pm

    Great tips & reminders! I especially relate to being flexible and not sweating the small stuff. I just had a graduation party for my daughter and was stressing over finding pink plates and finally went with some pink plastic ones I found at the Dollar Tree. But, when I got home and opened them, they looked more like frisbees, not plates and I wasn’t real happy about it. But, I went with them anyway, and in the end it worked out just fine and everything looked really festive and we all had fun, which was the main goal, anyway.

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